"The caregiver" love the bond.

By MEERO

 Hospitals are a major part of our lives, you’re born in one and that is if you’re lucky, it’s where we all go for emergencies, surgeries, having babies and many more other reasons that are health and safety related. 

It’s such a sad and a dull place to be at (Patient or Visitor) but it’s inevitable … my luck with hospitals so far had been not the best, I’ve watched my mom going to the hospital every 3 weeks for 3 years we had to go for a different damage in a different organ … we went through Breast & uterus Cancer, liver damage, Hep C, kidney failure, arriving at the end at liver failure then followed by mom gone to a better place (I truly believe in a much better place saved for the ones god chooses to save, and yes I believe in god … I know God and believing is not trending nowadays, but I am old fashion that way lol) 


This post is for the caregivers, I know exactly what you’re going through and I understand your pain but let me tell you something you probably heard a million times before …. It’s part of life, don’t lose your mind just yet … you’re at your low now, you will go back up again (FACTS) but this journey will make you something you never thought you could be.


And listen to this, you can’t do more than what you can.

You can’t save someone you love, it’s just the way of life (disturbing I know) but you can love them and care for them as long as they’re around.

You can’t take their pain and make it yours because you love them more than you love yourself. 

You can’t understand their pain but you can always be there when they need you.

You can’t change anything, you can only accept and love unconditionally and give all you got and this is how they will remember you in their journey … it’s theirs and theirs alone to take, you are only a visitor to be the one that would make them say “I was lucky to have them in my life”


Take one day at a time and believe that no matter how painful what they and you are going through, it’s just the journey … your and their journey and we are only here to unfold.


Love & Peace


Meero

An Egyptian-American woman who spent the last two decades in New York’s fashion industry is now embracing a new chapter in her life. With a fresh perspective and a deep sense of purpose, she is transitioning to a career as a life coach. Her journey through personal and professional challenges has led her to realize that her true calling lies in helping and serving others. By guiding people through their struggles, she aims to make a meaningful impact on the world—something she found lacking in the fashion industry.

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